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An attractive woman sips a cocktail under a bamboo shade. The sand is dazzlingly white, the sea aquamarine. A handsome young man approaches her and showers her with compliments: she is hoschen gefullt in ihr arschloch most beautiful woman he has ever seen, he says. For the first time in years, she truly believes she is desirable.

But this holiday romance is not all it seems. The woman is white, in her late 50s; the man, black, meet women sex in sendai - and paid for his attentions. The scene - from the controversial new French film, Heading South, meet women sex in sendai opened this weekend, starring Charlotte Rampling, makes us confront uncomfortable truths about sexuality in a globalised world, and the legacy of colonialism.

In the film, an intelligent, provocative take on sex tourism in the lates, Rampling plays Ellen, an American professor, who spends every summer at a private resort in Haiti, where beautiful, muscled black boys are available to the female clientele, mostly affluent single women in their forties, who despair of finding mates through more conventional means.

Fast-forward 30 years, and the reality of sex tourism is anything but tender. Tour companies even market package deals as sex holidays for single and unaccompanied women. Forget Shirley Valentine, these women - who range from grandmothers to teens - don't want a long-term relationship. And there's plenty of live flesh on sale. Take Jamaica, where 17 per cent of the population lives below the poverty line. Hustling on the beach is the only way that some young men can feed themselves and their families.

No wonder they choose older women meet women sex in sendai pay better than younger ones. Many others are hired as a guide to the island and throw in sexual services, often just for as meet women sex in sendai or a place to sleep. The definition of a sex tourist is an adult who travels in order to have legal consensual sexual relations with another adult, often for the exchange of money or presents.

We still assume that a sex tourist will be male - indeed many regard the relationship between beach boy and female tourist as harmless fun. The woman gets guilt-free sex while keeping a firm hold on the purse strings. Where's the harm? Jane, 67, a divorcee, has spent the past 10 years holidaying in West Africa. She loves the climate and the people - and she especially loves the men. They make you feel like a real women. Meet women sex in sendai don't mind paying for their drinks and meals if they stay the night.

For others, this is exploitation pure and simple. Even where meet women sex in sendai money is exchanged, this sort of behaviour destabilises local communities and families.

Ignorance and lack of concern about the abject poverty and lack of choice that characterises the men's lives leads the women to romanticise their actions. It is true that women sex tourists are still outnumbered by the legions of men who travel to Thailand and the Philippines for sex with prostitutes. Charities such as Amnesty and Unicef have no official policy on female sex tourism, preferring to focus meet women sex in sendai protecting trafficked women and children. Chris Beddoe, director of Ecpat UK, the children's rights organisation that campaigns against child sex tourism, believes: "If both adult partners are open and honest about what they're getting out of it, that's one thing.

But it's another thing to continue the fantasy when there's a denial of the power that money brings to that relationship that creates a culture of dependency and exploitation. Nirpal Dhaliwal, author of the recent novel, Tourism which satirises older white women turned on by young brown fleshtakes a tougher view. They help themselves to men in the developing world, kidding themselves that it's a 'holiday romance' that has nothing to do with the money they spend.

Go to any Jamaican beach and you'll find handsome 'rent-a-dreads', who get by servicing Western women - lots from Britain. I've seen similar things in Goa. Next month a new play, Sugar Mummies, about the pleasures and perils of sex tourism opens at London's Royal Court Theatre. Set in the Jamaican beach resort of Negril, it centres on a group of British and American women, seeking sun sea, sand Sexually frank and often very funny, the play doesn't pull its punches.

The playwright, Tanika Gupta, travelled to Jamaica to research the subject first-hand, and says she was shocked to find how female tourists objectify the black male body.

It becomes such a myth that even the men now use it. There is this terrible mutual delusion going on. And you do find yourself thinking, 'We're not a million miles from slavery. For all the talk of romance, the language of sex tourism is pretty basic. In Jamaica the men are called "beach boys" or "Rastatutes". The women are called milk bottles by the men - partly because of their ultra-white skin, partly because they are seen as vessels waiting to be filled.

Another myth the play explodes is that sex tourism is only perpetrated by white women. In Jamaica, Gupta met many black American women hiring beach boys. The boys themselves claimed they found it less degrading because they saw the Japanese women as smaller and more childlike. They decided to carry out their own research when they found that the usual analysis of sex tourism does not consider women as buyers of sexual services, because prostitute-users is seen as, by definition, male.

They interviewed women holidaying in Negril, and two similar resorts in the Dominican Republic. Almost a third said they had engaged in sexual relationships with local men.

Though 60 per cent admitted to certain "economic elements" to their liaisons, they did not perceive their sexual encounters as a prostitute-client transaction. Instead they insisted they were helping the men, and the local economy, by giving them money and gifts. Meet women sex in sendai asked to describe meet women sex in sendai, most emphasised how for them black Jamaican men possessed bodies meet women sex in sendai great sexual value.

I've been around the block. I come for sex - of course the sun, but mostly the sex. I'm not coming to live and set up house with a guy. I just want some fun and good sex. There's no way for women meet women sex in sendai go into a brothel meet women sex in sendai say, 'I fkk fantasy frauen elf krieger a blow job. On the first day, this baby aged 18 came to chat me up.

At first I thought, this will be good for my play. But then he got a bit fast, so I suggested he move on to some younger women, And he said, 'Me no want the kitten, me want the cat. The problem comes, she says, when the women start believing the men they have hooked up with are in love with them. If you have low self-esteem, if you've not had much luck, if you're older Some women even marry their boyfriends and take them home to the UK, although few relationships survive the cultural difference.

Jamica's most famous holiday romance has recently come meet women sex in sendai down. The novel, in which Stella, a divorced black woman in her forties, takes a holiday to Jamaica, where she meets and falls in love with Meet women sex in sendai, a local man half her age - was a fictionalised account of McMillan's own marriage to Jeremy Plummer, 23 years her junior.

This year, McMillan, 53, filed for divorce, claiming that the marriage was based on a "fraud'' because Plummer lied about his sexual orientation and married her only to gain US meet women sex in sendai. He denies it. It is a nasty twist that the countries where this meet women sex in sendai of tourism is most rife are ex-slave colonies. Many are still dealing with the fallout of colonialism.

All the hotels, restaurants, cars and glass-bottomed boats naughty slutty in the bahamas Negril are owned by Americans.

The urban economy doesn't even belong to the local people. Yet the women who sleep with the beach meet women sex in sendai insist they are helping race relations. They flatter themselves they have gone native. It is the female tourist who books the flights and determines the length of time she will spend with their boyfriend, as well as making day-to-day decisions when they are together, such as when and where they eat.

One year-old migrant from Haiti who had been working in Sosua, told Meet women sex in sendai Taylor that he even had to "snog" his tourist client despite a bad asian amateur tokyo bruste frei and a swollen face.

If he did not, he would not be able to afford the antibiotics to cure it. In Sugar Mummies, Gupta deliberately allows herself one relationship that might just work.

It will probably backfire and a whole load more women will go off meet women sex in sendai Jamaica. Lucy, a year-old events organiser from London, visited St Lucia this year with a friend. The words "sex tourism" make me think of City boys who go to Thailand meet women sex in sendai their mates for seedy conquests to boast about.

It's different for women. When they go abroad for sex, it's about wanting to feel special and escaping the boundaries at home. My friend and I decided to treat ourselves to a stay in a luxury hotel in St Lucia for 10 days of pure pampering - and ideally a sexual encounter. This was the first time I'd gone on holiday explicitly with this intention. I was keen to find a St Lucian man as I'd heard they were very well endowed. I had my eye on Sandi from my first day. He was a local working in the cocktail bar, in his early thirties, and was very handsome, muscular and toned paris hilton nackt lesben sex the perfect six-pack.

We spent several evenings drinking, chatting and flirting in the bar. There are very strict rules at the hotel about staff and guests so I knew I had to make the first move. I told him I was going for a walk on the beach - and we spent our first night together. It was very romantic. This was totally different from how I'd behave at home. In London, taking a man home with you, there's always the fear that friends might see you, not to mention potential dangers or the meet women sex in sendai of waking up in your flat with a stranger.

But junge madchen in strumpfhosen und high heels holiday the boundaries shift and you can behave totally differently. You have a tan, you feel gorgeous, you're treated like royalty - and everything is available and easy.

Sandi and I had a great time. On his day off, he took us to a local street party.


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